How we end 2011

2011 end very well for us (but for me personally, few things might ended better). WE ARE MARRIED! This post is all about our wedding. From the solemnization night, to our reception.

We chose 11th November 2011, to mark our new chapter in life, and 20 November 2011 to celebrate it with our family, relatives and friends. We did only one reception. Yes, ONE. Simply because; we had the same circle of friend and we can save not only in terms of expenditure (the wedding dress, the invitation card, the photography) but the time as well. Buat saudara mara yang jauh - jauh tu, tak perlu lah nak datang sampai tiga empat kali kan? :)

Shall we start with our solemnization? :)
It was held at night. So, siang tu still ada masa nak setelkan apa - apa yang tak setel lagi. Seriously, banyak gila benda nak buat. furthermore, i'm not working in KL. One minus point. Each time i came back to KL, i had to spend my time for the wedding prep such, checking the venue, dress fitting, shopping for hantaran, etc... anyway, I was the bride and the wedding planner. T.T
Not being cheapo here, but i rather do it on my own. So, I was on leave dari Raya Haji. Kelam kabut! Mana nak raya, nak makan rendang, nak jaga makan lagi (takut baju nikah sendat.hehe). Tapi Alhamdulillah. everything went well sebab saya ada pembantu yang setia bersama. She's my cousin. :D
And saya ada mak, kakak, abg, adik, abg ipar and my husband's family to help. I'm so grateful for it! Nikah was scheduled after isya'. My MUA janji nak datang pukul 6pm tapi sebabkan hari jumaat, as usual, there were heavy traffic all over. by 6.30, Alhamdulillah, my MUA safely arrived. At the time when she puts the veil on me, she was like, "what happen to the veil?". Jeng..jeng..jeng...It was burnt! I wasn't supposed to iron the veil but i did! and.... biasalah, orang tengah nervous, i didn't realize the iron temperature was too high. tiba-tiba je, lubang my veil. teeeet! nasib baik boleh cover. I had to ask my cousin to sew the veil. If not, togel lah kepala malam tu.

Alhamdulillah, dengan sekali lafaz, I became a wife to Syafeeq Abd Rahim. Macam sebak juga but i rarely cry in public. Dalam hati jelah sobsobsob.
3 days after that, i went back to work... Kesian, baru kahwin da berpisah. huhuhu.

My bestfriends before the ceremony

After i became his'

Lafaz taklik

My new family

My beloved family

My helpful cousin : AAN!

Back in KL after 3 days. And we were sooooooooooooooooo busy for the reception. Our reception was held in Taman Tasik Titiwangsa. My dream of having garden wedding akhirnya came true. hehehe.

entrance to the venue

Our plan is, to make everything simple and near to perfection. We are not that rich to make it soooo grand. Cukuplah dapat celebrate it with our love ones. Two families collaborate in making our plan to reality. And the night before, we met our best-man and bride's maid and other friend whom i appoint to assist in giving out the door gift.  We back to the basic. Bagi telur je. Orang dulu dulu percaya, bagi telur as a symbol of fertility. In a way, wishing the bride and the groom will get baby real soon after they get married. But nowadays, people getting more creative. When we attend a wedding, the usual door gift that we could get are like mug, muffin, and macam macam lagi. Me and hubby, penat dah discuss nak bagi apa. At last, we accept his mom's suggestion to give telur rebus. 

Since it'll be outdoor reception, the arrangement of the table and the ornaments will be done the night before. But....selagi kita menjadi hamba Allah, we'll be continuously tested. Malam tu i had a very bad diarrhea. It made my husband became alone in monitoring the preparation. Luckily, our photographer and videographer came. They were actually surveying the venue for some reason. They then accompany Syafeeq. Allah knows well right?

Next day, after subuh, we went there again. To check up on the preparation but we were bound by our preparation at 11. Alhamdulillah, there were kind soul to help us in make certain that everything is done accordingly. And Alhamdulillah again, the majlis went smoothly...

instead of kompang, we hired a band from VI

Many thanks to my mom, my sister & family, my two brother, my grandma, aan, my in-laws family, my STAR (makk,zati,lynn), husmi, munh,shakila and all families who help us... We do really appreciate it. Doakan we could have kids in near future. :)

And now we are happily married. :) 

12 is coming`

2012 is coming and i'm here in Dubai. Well, so many things happened in 2011. it has been a remarkable year for me and Syafeeq yet for my family.

Just a few updates. Me and syafeeq is happily married (sila cakap congratulation) on November,11th 2011. I've done my umrah a week after our reception (Alhamdulillah) and I'm pregnant (oke, ni tipu. haha). Pregnant is such a big thing. If anyone ask, frankly i'm not ready yet to become a mother but i leave it all to Allah cuz He knows better. At the same time, i'm still under my company's bond. which i think i left about 10 months to go and  i'm free. Yahooo!!! OOpps, Alhamdulillah! ;)

Most of my colleagues don't believe that i'm married. "u're too young darling!'' That's the common expression that i received. Yes i'm young but turning our relationship into Halal is a super great decision. We've been together since we were 16 and we were 25 when we get married. Of course, there were upside-down in our relationship and we managed to get through it and it makes our relationship stronger. I love him very much! And, bila dah kahwin ni, lagi best. Sebab even dengan menatap (chewah) ur husband with love, dah dapat pahala (and i did it without fail everytime i see him). And, lagi best cuz when we go out together, i dun have to worry to inform my mom. hehe.

Well, I'm newcomer so,i still have a looooooooooooooooooooooots of thing to learn. But as long as we know the concept of marriage in Islam and what are our responsibilities, i believe our marriage will last forever (doakan k!). There are few couple out there, yang kadang2 bila dia selalu keluarkan duit, years later, mula nak mengungkit. If he's or she's ur girlfriend or boyfriend, takpelah kot nak mengungkit. But, u're married! Mak saya pernah berpesan, bila dah kahwin, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, share dengan our soulmate walau sesikit mana, and sebanyak mana rezeki yang Allah bagi tu. And if u think ur husband/wife has a lots of flaw, please keep it between you and him. If i'm not mistaken, dosa if we spread the words. Tok kadi saya cakap, "walau seburuk mana pasangan anda, terima dia dengan seadanya. Kalau dia suka tidur, kita kena terima. Kalau dia tidur berdengkur pon, terima jugak. Bila kita bersabar, pasti ada balasan dari Allah" .

Marriage is a beautiful thing. Kalau kita cakap, bayi yang lahir tu ibarat kain putih, ibu bapa yang akan mencorakkannya, i think i'm not wrong to say that marriage is as well like a clean canvas. It's up to you and ur soulmate how to paint it. Doesn't matter what comes in ur way, as long as u know how to handle it, I'm sure u'll be fine. Whatever mistakes that u've done, always muhasabah diri sendiri before u start to blame other. Remember, people around u may give their own opinion based on the surface, but u know things well. So, take everything into account before u make ur decision. They give comment, but u r the one who make the decision.

I'll blog about my wedding and our honeymoon soon. Meantime, pls enjoy some of our wedding picture. :D

on our solemnization night

 our reception 

my family 

p/s: sayang, i dun have ur family's picture

I guess that's all! It's 1135 in dubai now and my check out time is 1610. I wanna have my power nap before flight or else, i may become a singa stewardess. hahaha! 

I'm Engaged!

I have change my status since 25th December 2010. What a great finish of 2010 i believe. ^^

Since i've become somebody's fiance ni (actually i dun really feel a great change in our status.hihi), a lot i've to slowly change. Trying to be more respect to my fiance in preparation of our next status change which insyaAllah will be on 11 day before our 9th anniversary. Nak tahu bile? cari sendiri la my anniversary date. :p

Wanna see my engagement's picture(s)? Xnak? Xnak xpe, i still nak shows off jugak! wekk!

my beloved mom! :*

my mother in law..eh, belum lagi la.hihi

my family
his family
stars~
owh, best friend saya punya pic xde dalam laptop. harap bestfriend2 saya faham ye. huhu.

frens of him

the girlfriends
lastly, me and him
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and the rings~hehe

People always said that being engaged is the toughest one. Why? Erm, my personal point of view, it's not exactly being engaged that made it so. It is because.....

1. Preparation of the wedding

There are a lot of things to be thinking of prior to the big day. eg; catering, reception date, honeymoon (oops.haha), the solemnization ceremony etc. As for me and my fiance, we had a little quarrel on the theme color and venue. Since we'll be joining our reception in which, only one reception (normally, in malay wedding, 2 reception will be hold), so, we need to choose the color that both of us could agree on. The venue, we had list down few of it but then, end up only one place that available. huhuhu. *nanges*. Almost like everytime we talked about it, the conversation will goes to arguments. haish..Sampai rase malas nak kahwin sebab asyik gaduh over this thing. haha. But, we solve it,because we could tolerate with each other opinions (yeke sayang? :P). As conclusion for this; we have to tolerate with our other half. Barulah bahagia. ^^

2. The mind set

Some couple have set in their mind that "engage = trouble = brittle relationship". The relationship's fundamental has been set to negative thing. When we think of something negatives, results we'll be negative. Kan? Cuba fikir the positive things. "engage = more loving = more durable relationship". Isn't it sounds better? So, throw that negative thought! 

Erm, those two reasons je that I could think right now. :p. If you all have ur own opinion, please share it ya! :)

Okelah, i think i should stop now. hihi.

Thanks for reading. :)

Daaaaaa~~~

If i knew...

If i knew it would be the last time that i'd see u fall asleep, 

i would tuck u in more tightly and pray the Lord, ur soul to keep

If i knew it would be the last time I'd hear ur voice lifted up in praise,

I would video tape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day

If i knew it would be the last time I could spare an extra minute,

I will stop and say I love you, instead of assuming u would know i do

If i knew it would be the last time i would be there to share your day,

well, i'm sure u'll have many more, so i can just let this one slip away

For surely there's always tomorrow to make up for an overnight

and we always get a second chance to make everything just right

There will always be another day to say I love u and certainly 

there's another chance to say our "anything i can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong, and today is all i get,

I'd like to say how much I love you,

And I hope we never forget

Tomorrow isn't promise to anyone; young or old alike

And today maybe the last chance u get to hold ur loved one tight

So, if u're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today,

For if tomorrow never comes, u'll surely regret the day,

That u didn't take the that extra minute for a smile, a hug or a kiss,

And u were to busy to grant someone what turned out to be their last wish

So, hold ur loved ones close today, and whisper them in their ear,

Tell them how much u love them, and that u'll always hold them dear

Take time to say, I'm sorry, Please forgive me, thank you or it's oke...

...and if tomorrow never come, u'll have no regret about today...

me or yOu?

oryIs me or u has the hard rock style ego?

Always be my baby

Love the song ^^

 and i dedicated the phrases of the song to my love ^^

"i’m a part of you indefinitely
don’t you know you can’t escape me
ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby

and we’ll linger on
time can’t erase a feeling this strong 

no way you’re never gonna shake me
ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby"

LOVE U ALWAYS~