2012 is coming and i'm here in Dubai. Well, so many things happened in 2011. it has been a remarkable year for me and Syafeeq yet for my family.
Just a few updates. Me and syafeeq is happily married (sila cakap congratulation) on November,11th 2011. I've done my umrah a week after our reception (Alhamdulillah) and I'm pregnant (oke, ni tipu. haha). Pregnant is such a big thing. If anyone ask, frankly i'm not ready yet to become a mother but i leave it all to Allah cuz He knows better. At the same time, i'm still under my company's bond. which i think i left about 10 months to go and i'm free. Yahooo!!! OOpps, Alhamdulillah! ;)
Most of my colleagues don't believe that i'm married. "u're too young darling!'' That's the common expression that i received. Yes i'm young but turning our relationship into Halal is a super great decision. We've been together since we were 16 and we were 25 when we get married. Of course, there were upside-down in our relationship and we managed to get through it and it makes our relationship stronger. I love him very much! And, bila dah kahwin ni, lagi best. Sebab even dengan menatap (chewah) ur husband with love, dah dapat pahala (and i did it without fail everytime i see him). And, lagi best cuz when we go out together, i dun have to worry to inform my mom. hehe.
Well, I'm newcomer so,i still have a looooooooooooooooooooooots of thing to learn. But as long as we know the concept of marriage in Islam and what are our responsibilities, i believe our marriage will last forever (doakan k!). There are few couple out there, yang kadang2 bila dia selalu keluarkan duit, years later, mula nak mengungkit. If he's or she's ur girlfriend or boyfriend, takpelah kot nak mengungkit. But, u're married! Mak saya pernah berpesan, bila dah kahwin, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, share dengan our soulmate walau sesikit mana, and sebanyak mana rezeki yang Allah bagi tu. And if u think ur husband/wife has a lots of flaw, please keep it between you and him. If i'm not mistaken, dosa if we spread the words. Tok kadi saya cakap, "walau seburuk mana pasangan anda, terima dia dengan seadanya. Kalau dia suka tidur, kita kena terima. Kalau dia tidur berdengkur pon, terima jugak. Bila kita bersabar, pasti ada balasan dari Allah" .
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Kalau kita cakap, bayi yang lahir tu ibarat kain putih, ibu bapa yang akan mencorakkannya, i think i'm not wrong to say that marriage is as well like a clean canvas. It's up to you and ur soulmate how to paint it. Doesn't matter what comes in ur way, as long as u know how to handle it, I'm sure u'll be fine. Whatever mistakes that u've done, always muhasabah diri sendiri before u start to blame other. Remember, people around u may give their own opinion based on the surface, but u know things well. So, take everything into account before u make ur decision. They give comment, but u r the one who make the decision.
I'll blog about my wedding and our honeymoon soon. Meantime, pls enjoy some of our wedding picture. :D
Just a few updates. Me and syafeeq is happily married (sila cakap congratulation) on November,11th 2011. I've done my umrah a week after our reception (Alhamdulillah) and I'm pregnant (oke, ni tipu. haha). Pregnant is such a big thing. If anyone ask, frankly i'm not ready yet to become a mother but i leave it all to Allah cuz He knows better. At the same time, i'm still under my company's bond. which i think i left about 10 months to go and i'm free. Yahooo!!! OOpps, Alhamdulillah! ;)
Most of my colleagues don't believe that i'm married. "u're too young darling!'' That's the common expression that i received. Yes i'm young but turning our relationship into Halal is a super great decision. We've been together since we were 16 and we were 25 when we get married. Of course, there were upside-down in our relationship and we managed to get through it and it makes our relationship stronger. I love him very much! And, bila dah kahwin ni, lagi best. Sebab even dengan menatap (chewah) ur husband with love, dah dapat pahala (and i did it without fail everytime i see him). And, lagi best cuz when we go out together, i dun have to worry to inform my mom. hehe.
Well, I'm newcomer so,i still have a looooooooooooooooooooooots of thing to learn. But as long as we know the concept of marriage in Islam and what are our responsibilities, i believe our marriage will last forever (doakan k!). There are few couple out there, yang kadang2 bila dia selalu keluarkan duit, years later, mula nak mengungkit. If he's or she's ur girlfriend or boyfriend, takpelah kot nak mengungkit. But, u're married! Mak saya pernah berpesan, bila dah kahwin, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, share dengan our soulmate walau sesikit mana, and sebanyak mana rezeki yang Allah bagi tu. And if u think ur husband/wife has a lots of flaw, please keep it between you and him. If i'm not mistaken, dosa if we spread the words. Tok kadi saya cakap, "walau seburuk mana pasangan anda, terima dia dengan seadanya. Kalau dia suka tidur, kita kena terima. Kalau dia tidur berdengkur pon, terima jugak. Bila kita bersabar, pasti ada balasan dari Allah" .
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Kalau kita cakap, bayi yang lahir tu ibarat kain putih, ibu bapa yang akan mencorakkannya, i think i'm not wrong to say that marriage is as well like a clean canvas. It's up to you and ur soulmate how to paint it. Doesn't matter what comes in ur way, as long as u know how to handle it, I'm sure u'll be fine. Whatever mistakes that u've done, always muhasabah diri sendiri before u start to blame other. Remember, people around u may give their own opinion based on the surface, but u know things well. So, take everything into account before u make ur decision. They give comment, but u r the one who make the decision.
I'll blog about my wedding and our honeymoon soon. Meantime, pls enjoy some of our wedding picture. :D
on our solemnization night
our reception
my family
p/s: sayang, i dun have ur family's picture
I guess that's all! It's 1135 in dubai now and my check out time is 1610. I wanna have my power nap before flight or else, i may become a singa stewardess. hahaha!
