Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Hujan Rahmat

As Malay saying goes "hujan itu pembawa rahmat". Hmmm...to be as posituve as i could,yes,i admit that. Even when something bad happeb during the rainy day, i know that there must be a blessing in disguise. Allah will never give something without any reason.ok, What's up Indah??!!!

Hehehe...last wednesday, it was raining cat and dog. I look at my hanphone, it's 4.15am. I rush to toilet and do whatever necessary then quickly run to car and drove off.i need to fetch my beloved fiancee from since i borrowed his car. I drive as per normal but suddenly, the car stopped!!! Oh my Allah!!!! I stepped out and....jeng jeng jeng...huhu... Macam tak sanggup nak sambung cerita. Huhu. But the last thing i could tell, the car's engine is full with water. Wuuuuuu... My fiancee keep blaming me. I know it's my fault but, i never meant to. It's not like i take a water jar, then fill up the engine with water. It was accident. :'(

Now the car has been admitted to workshop. Huhu. I am sorry sayang....tapi,silalah percaya hujan itu pembawa rahmat. You can't see or feel it now but, who knows...

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Young,truth & honesty

Honesty and truth vs hipocracy...huhu. Sometimes it's good to speAk up and tell the truth but sometimes,something os better to remain silent. I don't want to be a hipocrite but i just can't avoid it. I like to speak up whatever i feel and it's sometimes hurts others. But i just throw my point of view. It's isn't wrong right? I couldn't just stand there and watch everything without doing anything; more over if it involve people that I love.

Who made the rules that young people can't commented people whom are elder than him/her??? If we know that the elder is doing something wrong, or going astray, we may tap on their shoulder and says that "eh, i think what you did is not correct". What should the elder respons? Scold the young or sit and think whether what she/he commented about is correct or not. I just don't understand people who can't take younger people's advice or comment.

ish, what am i babling about??!!!! Ini semua gara-gara jetlagged of london. T.T
Erm,okelah. I'm going to try to sleep for .....can't remember how many times already.hahaha.bengong dah lah! Bye!

Assamualaikum kawan-kawan.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Forgiveness

What do you think about forgiveness? We should asked for it or shall we give it? The answer is; the best thing to do is, we give the forgiveness to whomever without waiting for that particular person to asked it from u. With me? Why? hurm, as for me, i think because it's easily lessen our burden to think and think and wait "when he/she is going to asked me to forgive him/her"? kan?? But, i never said that we don't have to ask for it. Haish, kalau dah buat salah, pandai - pandailah mintak maaf kan? ^^

Just imagine, if people easily forgive others, Iraq won't be attack by US and, WTC will still be there. People always said, "I am not a Prophet Muhammad S.A.W, i am not easily forgive," or even worse, "tiada maaf bagimu"...wah2..ayat drama! haha. I was, sometimes said that but after a while and thinking of it, it's no use to keep the grudge. Life is very, very short. So, why should we waste it with hatred and grudge. And now, with all the natural disaster, it's a sign from Allah that the world has come to an end. If 2012 really happens, we left like...erm, one and half year? that's too short kan? (oke, i am scared to think about it. But, no one can predict the judgement day kan? huhu. So, boleh abaikan. Sila banyakkan beramal kepada yang satu kat atas tu ye). So, just spread the love, forgive others and be positive.


I found this when i google through. We can take the good ones;

To experience the life-giving nature of forgiveness, try putting into practice these six steps each time you are hurt by another person.
  1. Admit that you have needed forgiveness in the past. We all make mistakes. We’ve all hurt other people in the past. One of the key steps in being able to practice the power of forgiveness is to realize that you have needed forgiveness at some point in your life too. When we are able to humbly admit that we have needed forgiveness from another, we are in a better position to offer forgiveness to someone who has hurt us. 
  2. Understand what forgiveness is not. You were wronged. Don’t minimize the offense by pretending it didn’t happen. Granted, if you were hurt accidentally, you only need to show patience. But if you were hurt intentionally, you’ll need to accept that fact and show forgiveness.
  3. Realize the difference between forgiveness and trust. One of the most misunderstood aspects of forgiveness is when it is confused with trust. Depending on the nature of the offense, your ability to trust has been deeply compromised. Forgiving somebody does not mean that you need to restore that relationship without changes. Remember that forgiveness can be instant, but trust must be built over a period of time. Realize the difference. While offering forgiveness brings freedom, being wise about trust can protect your heart in the future.
  4. Give up your right to get even. Too many people live life keeping score. They keep a mental list of people who have wronged them in the past and live their life looking for opportunities to get even. Forgiveness provides the opportunity to erase the list and to release your heart from the burden of revenge.
  5. Choose to respond with kindness. Anyone can respond to evil with evil. But only the strong can respond with good. Kindness breaks the cycle. It can bring freedom to your soul and release your life from the never-ending, downward cycle of responding to evil with evil.
  6. Repeat the process as needed. As long as you live your life in relationship with others, you are going to be wronged. Accept the fact that nobody is perfect and be prepared to repeat the process above as needed.
If you are harboring resentment towards another human being because of past hurts, choose to forgive and move on. The harm was their fault. But allowing it to weigh down your life today is yours. Free yourself today by taking the steps to experience the benefits of forgiveness in your life.
p/s: this is not from me. copy from google tau. hehehe. sharing is sexy kan? :p

Oh, I am so lazy to fly now. I am easily get bored. hahhaa. Nak jadi student semula lah. :) . I am still deciding whether to further MBA or Master of Urban Planning. But, my intuition is more to MBA.Eh, i think before i start to write ridiculous things, i better off now. Moreover, I am sleepy but i just ate cheese cake. Adakah ini akan menyebabkan lemak membesar if i go the bed now? huhu. My uniform is going to burst soon! it's soooooooooooooooooooooooo freaking tight now!!!! Every night before i sleep, i intent to go jogging the next morning but then end up, hangat - hangat tahi ayam! hahaha. After subuh prayer, i'll sleep again all the way until my stomach starts to growling. hehehe. Oke, good night friends!

p/s: the italic phrase is in Malay Language. If you don't understand, please use google translate to translate it. Just click the link. ^_-

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Currently

Currently, i enjoyed traveling around and love serving people on board (oke, this one sometimes isn't true at all!). Haha. I will easily gets annoyed when...............................................passenger poke me while i'm still serving, unstoppable orders for the whole good 12 hours on board from the same passenger and when people used the lavatory then leave their sh*t behind! uwarrrrrrghhh! That is the scariest!I think they should put the "flush here" sign bigger. Yelah, bukan semua orang selalu naik kapal terbang kan? But then, i realized that different ppl has different intention and perspectives. Maybe, they just a "stewardess' attention seeker".  What i meant, they looooooooooooooove to look at stewardess, which i think same as me before i became a stewardess. hikhik. So, layankan ajelah kan? Be a good stewardess. Hehe. Here's some photo while i  was in Amsterdam. I love the landscape here! It's really pedestrian and environmental friendly. Everybody seems comfortable riding a bicycle. Sooooooooooo cute. Hehe. I wish that Malaysian could do this as well but too bad, the weather in Malaysia didn't allowed us to do so but, why they can do it in Singapore? Hurm... So, apalagi, bagilah cadangan kat Kerajaan Malaysia how to make it possible. The town planning must be superb i guess.
 A lotsa bicycle parked by the roadside. Substitute it with motorcycle in KL.
 Opps, nightlife in Amstedam is sooo alive in their RED LIGHT DISTRICT. :p
 at Flowe Market with messy hair style (padahal rambut bersepah. haha)
 See, lotsa bicycle kan?
 Farid-me-Vera

I wish i could bring back Amsterdam for you but, sorry! I can't afford it. The city setting is almost the same over the steps that u take.

Oke, enuff! back to me. hehe. I ym-ed with my ex colleagues yesterday. She told me about my replacement has resigned unprofessionally. But that is not the thing that i want to scribble here. I was sooooooooooooo glad when my ex-colleague told me that my client gave me compliment. hehe. owh, i love u Mr Lee. Ooops...haha. I do love work with him. I must admit that sometimes i miss my previous career. T.T . p/s: my laptop has been attacked by virus(es). It can't detect any USB. So, i can't paste my artwork here. Next time lah eh?

Currently, me and my beloved fiance is busy with our wedding preparation. U want the date? Hehe. It'll be on 20th November 2011 and the solemnization will be on 11th November 2011. Our anniversary is on 22nd November. If u realize, all has connection to 11. :P. Nothing is special pon about 11. It's just a number. Tapi apa motif I nak kaitkan 11 tu? :p . We have settled quite number of things but i'm worried that we might missed something that is important. Can any of you help me pls? Oke, here's the things that we've done:
  • Wedding Dress & Suit
  • Venue
  • Catering
  • Pelamin
  • Make Up
  • Dowry
  • doorgift
  • Photographer. *we are still thinking of the theme of our pre-wedding photoshoot. Any suggestion?*
Anything that we missed???

Oh ya, i have moved to a new house. I really like the house!! Super nice! Hehehe.
Who is agree with me that this house is nice??hehehe