How we end 2011

2011 end very well for us (but for me personally, few things might ended better). WE ARE MARRIED! This post is all about our wedding. From the solemnization night, to our reception.

We chose 11th November 2011, to mark our new chapter in life, and 20 November 2011 to celebrate it with our family, relatives and friends. We did only one reception. Yes, ONE. Simply because; we had the same circle of friend and we can save not only in terms of expenditure (the wedding dress, the invitation card, the photography) but the time as well. Buat saudara mara yang jauh - jauh tu, tak perlu lah nak datang sampai tiga empat kali kan? :)

Shall we start with our solemnization? :)
It was held at night. So, siang tu still ada masa nak setelkan apa - apa yang tak setel lagi. Seriously, banyak gila benda nak buat. furthermore, i'm not working in KL. One minus point. Each time i came back to KL, i had to spend my time for the wedding prep such, checking the venue, dress fitting, shopping for hantaran, etc... anyway, I was the bride and the wedding planner. T.T
Not being cheapo here, but i rather do it on my own. So, I was on leave dari Raya Haji. Kelam kabut! Mana nak raya, nak makan rendang, nak jaga makan lagi (takut baju nikah sendat.hehe). Tapi Alhamdulillah. everything went well sebab saya ada pembantu yang setia bersama. She's my cousin. :D
And saya ada mak, kakak, abg, adik, abg ipar and my husband's family to help. I'm so grateful for it! Nikah was scheduled after isya'. My MUA janji nak datang pukul 6pm tapi sebabkan hari jumaat, as usual, there were heavy traffic all over. by 6.30, Alhamdulillah, my MUA safely arrived. At the time when she puts the veil on me, she was like, "what happen to the veil?". Jeng..jeng..jeng...It was burnt! I wasn't supposed to iron the veil but i did! and.... biasalah, orang tengah nervous, i didn't realize the iron temperature was too high. tiba-tiba je, lubang my veil. teeeet! nasib baik boleh cover. I had to ask my cousin to sew the veil. If not, togel lah kepala malam tu.

Alhamdulillah, dengan sekali lafaz, I became a wife to Syafeeq Abd Rahim. Macam sebak juga but i rarely cry in public. Dalam hati jelah sobsobsob.
3 days after that, i went back to work... Kesian, baru kahwin da berpisah. huhuhu.

My bestfriends before the ceremony

After i became his'

Lafaz taklik

My new family

My beloved family

My helpful cousin : AAN!

Back in KL after 3 days. And we were sooooooooooooooooo busy for the reception. Our reception was held in Taman Tasik Titiwangsa. My dream of having garden wedding akhirnya came true. hehehe.

entrance to the venue

Our plan is, to make everything simple and near to perfection. We are not that rich to make it soooo grand. Cukuplah dapat celebrate it with our love ones. Two families collaborate in making our plan to reality. And the night before, we met our best-man and bride's maid and other friend whom i appoint to assist in giving out the door gift.  We back to the basic. Bagi telur je. Orang dulu dulu percaya, bagi telur as a symbol of fertility. In a way, wishing the bride and the groom will get baby real soon after they get married. But nowadays, people getting more creative. When we attend a wedding, the usual door gift that we could get are like mug, muffin, and macam macam lagi. Me and hubby, penat dah discuss nak bagi apa. At last, we accept his mom's suggestion to give telur rebus. 

Since it'll be outdoor reception, the arrangement of the table and the ornaments will be done the night before. But....selagi kita menjadi hamba Allah, we'll be continuously tested. Malam tu i had a very bad diarrhea. It made my husband became alone in monitoring the preparation. Luckily, our photographer and videographer came. They were actually surveying the venue for some reason. They then accompany Syafeeq. Allah knows well right?

Next day, after subuh, we went there again. To check up on the preparation but we were bound by our preparation at 11. Alhamdulillah, there were kind soul to help us in make certain that everything is done accordingly. And Alhamdulillah again, the majlis went smoothly...

instead of kompang, we hired a band from VI

Many thanks to my mom, my sister & family, my two brother, my grandma, aan, my in-laws family, my STAR (makk,zati,lynn), husmi, munh,shakila and all families who help us... We do really appreciate it. Doakan we could have kids in near future. :)

And now we are happily married. :) 

12 is coming`

2012 is coming and i'm here in Dubai. Well, so many things happened in 2011. it has been a remarkable year for me and Syafeeq yet for my family.

Just a few updates. Me and syafeeq is happily married (sila cakap congratulation) on November,11th 2011. I've done my umrah a week after our reception (Alhamdulillah) and I'm pregnant (oke, ni tipu. haha). Pregnant is such a big thing. If anyone ask, frankly i'm not ready yet to become a mother but i leave it all to Allah cuz He knows better. At the same time, i'm still under my company's bond. which i think i left about 10 months to go and  i'm free. Yahooo!!! OOpps, Alhamdulillah! ;)

Most of my colleagues don't believe that i'm married. "u're too young darling!'' That's the common expression that i received. Yes i'm young but turning our relationship into Halal is a super great decision. We've been together since we were 16 and we were 25 when we get married. Of course, there were upside-down in our relationship and we managed to get through it and it makes our relationship stronger. I love him very much! And, bila dah kahwin ni, lagi best. Sebab even dengan menatap (chewah) ur husband with love, dah dapat pahala (and i did it without fail everytime i see him). And, lagi best cuz when we go out together, i dun have to worry to inform my mom. hehe.

Well, I'm newcomer so,i still have a looooooooooooooooooooooots of thing to learn. But as long as we know the concept of marriage in Islam and what are our responsibilities, i believe our marriage will last forever (doakan k!). There are few couple out there, yang kadang2 bila dia selalu keluarkan duit, years later, mula nak mengungkit. If he's or she's ur girlfriend or boyfriend, takpelah kot nak mengungkit. But, u're married! Mak saya pernah berpesan, bila dah kahwin, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, share dengan our soulmate walau sesikit mana, and sebanyak mana rezeki yang Allah bagi tu. And if u think ur husband/wife has a lots of flaw, please keep it between you and him. If i'm not mistaken, dosa if we spread the words. Tok kadi saya cakap, "walau seburuk mana pasangan anda, terima dia dengan seadanya. Kalau dia suka tidur, kita kena terima. Kalau dia tidur berdengkur pon, terima jugak. Bila kita bersabar, pasti ada balasan dari Allah" .

Marriage is a beautiful thing. Kalau kita cakap, bayi yang lahir tu ibarat kain putih, ibu bapa yang akan mencorakkannya, i think i'm not wrong to say that marriage is as well like a clean canvas. It's up to you and ur soulmate how to paint it. Doesn't matter what comes in ur way, as long as u know how to handle it, I'm sure u'll be fine. Whatever mistakes that u've done, always muhasabah diri sendiri before u start to blame other. Remember, people around u may give their own opinion based on the surface, but u know things well. So, take everything into account before u make ur decision. They give comment, but u r the one who make the decision.

I'll blog about my wedding and our honeymoon soon. Meantime, pls enjoy some of our wedding picture. :D

on our solemnization night

 our reception 

my family 

p/s: sayang, i dun have ur family's picture

I guess that's all! It's 1135 in dubai now and my check out time is 1610. I wanna have my power nap before flight or else, i may become a singa stewardess. hahaha! 

Almost 14

It's almost 14 years and it has been 13 years since last time i wish "Happy Father's Day" to someone whom i called ayah. The thought of you will never fade as I love you very much. May ur soul be blessed by Allah always. Al-fatihah~

Malas

Just came back from sydney. Winter?yes! But not a heavy one. The winter just started. I'm starvin now but malas to cook or order mcd (muak dah!). My room is full with unfold clothes. This one i memang malas! Hahaha.rasa2 if one day ada machine lipat baju,i'll be the 1st one to buy. Hihi. Teringat time matrik dulu2.I've a friend who actually kind enough to fold my mountain of garments. I was just kidding by that time;

Friend: eh,kau taknak lipat ke baju ni?
Me: nantilah. Kalau kau rajin,lipatlah. Hahahaha!

I went to the toilet right after. When i came back to my room, tadaaaaaa!!!!!

Me: eh,what happen to my clothes?
Friend: aku lipatlah.
Me:???????

Tired but it was an awesome set of crew i flew with. We've got a honeymoon couple on board. We served honeymoon cake and special drink for them. So,if u guys happen to fly with singapore airlines on ur special occasion; luke honeymoon, birthday, anniversary etc, just stated in ur booking,special event. We are more than please to serve u. Weeeee!

Weddingcinematography/videography

I and syafeeq went to Pameran Kerja Kahwin which was hel in Kompleks Kraf KL. It was uplanned. Suddenly feels like going cuz i wanted to get an idea on doorgift. But, lain pulak yang dapat.haha. We took a cinematography package from .It's quite reasonable unfortunately, their schedule is full for our solemnization. Sob2... That's the most important part! As what syafeeq said,when we quarrel or merajuk with each other, we can watch the video and reminisce of the moments. Haha! We only manage to hire them for our reception. So friends, i need your help!! Just in case, you happrn to know any videograper or cinematographer with reasonable price, do let me know k! :)
Or maybe u, urself is the one, and u r available on the 11th nov 2011, please contact me through my email (indahayatie@gmail.com) ok! Hee...

Oh my laptop

Today nak sigh about my laptop. Huhu. My own laptop has been attacked by virus+worms+every sort of things that lead to crashing my lappy. I havr soooooooo many things inside there! My wedding invitation card design as well. Grrrrrrrrr!

Then, i borrowed my brother's laptop. It has no photoshop so, i installed it last night. Suddenly, arghhhhhhh! The window just froze! Grrrrrrrrr again! Rasa2 nak beli laptop barulah.hihi.agak2 kalau saya tanya kat syafeeq,dia bagi tak? :p

Okelah,itu je nak update.tak seronok update pakai phone. Nak upload picture pon tak boleh. Cis!

aLone

Lonely! Yes, that what i felt. Haish... sampai bila tak boleh nak get used to singapore ni?huhu. Anyway, i applied for my master! Daripada I tak buat anything dekat Singapore ni, might as well doing something which can upgrade my self. Hehe. (doakan saya dapat eh. TQ! ^^) I wanted to do freelance for landscape unfortunately, my ex boss don't want freelance. Aiyak, soooooooooo bored when nobody's around, especially when all my friends are flying. T__T

In 5 months and 2 weeks, i'll be somebody's wife. Happy but at the same time nervous. Haha! We planned to have kids after 2/3 years but if Allah grant us earlier, Alhamdulillah. :D (muka excited masa type ni). Haha. Hopefully, nothing will come in between until our wedding day. Amin....

Married then got kids ramai - ramai macam ni. hikhik.

p/s: this pic is from uncle G. :)

P/S : It's a great singapore sale now! Jomlah datang singapura! hihi.

When something just not as b4...

Sometimes i felt like something doesn't go as i hope it should be. What's went wrong? I dunno! But one thing for sure,i miss my friends back in KL. Singapore is....... I might say liveless! Friends just come and go. People see, stewrdess is such happening job. Yes it is but,u'll realize,in the end, u got no friends because you keep working with diff ppl hence,it is very difficult to get close with somebody. Hurm...

Oke,enuff of touching!back to reality indah! :p

I'll be leaving for sydney tonight! :)

Mamma Mia!

Currently reporting from London! A very nice city. I can't help it to say that I love London! I got to visit London every month since March. Some people don't like London but for me, I don't mind about it cuz, London has Primark, which selling the most affordable and nice clothing, shoes and handbags. :D . And as I'm a Muslim, not mustslim, so it'll be easier for me cuz i can eat at Malaysian Hall. My friend said to me "eh, dah macam balik kampung you ni".:P

I watched Mamma Mia yesterday. Not bad! I was thinking of watching Phantom of the Opera or Mamma Mia. At last, we chose Mamma Mia and i guess i had a great deal! I don't want to waste my time to tell the plot. So, you can read it here. Next month I'm going to watch Phantom of the Opera, or should i watch Wicked? or The Lion King? Waaaaaaaaaaaaaargh, alot of plays here and I don't know which one is better! ><

As i go around the globe, i always wish that someone will be here, together with me because.................................  tak syok jalan sorang2! wuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu~

Hujan Rahmat

As Malay saying goes "hujan itu pembawa rahmat". Hmmm...to be as posituve as i could,yes,i admit that. Even when something bad happeb during the rainy day, i know that there must be a blessing in disguise. Allah will never give something without any reason.ok, What's up Indah??!!!

Hehehe...last wednesday, it was raining cat and dog. I look at my hanphone, it's 4.15am. I rush to toilet and do whatever necessary then quickly run to car and drove off.i need to fetch my beloved fiancee from since i borrowed his car. I drive as per normal but suddenly, the car stopped!!! Oh my Allah!!!! I stepped out and....jeng jeng jeng...huhu... Macam tak sanggup nak sambung cerita. Huhu. But the last thing i could tell, the car's engine is full with water. Wuuuuuu... My fiancee keep blaming me. I know it's my fault but, i never meant to. It's not like i take a water jar, then fill up the engine with water. It was accident. :'(

Now the car has been admitted to workshop. Huhu. I am sorry sayang....tapi,silalah percaya hujan itu pembawa rahmat. You can't see or feel it now but, who knows...