12 is coming`

2012 is coming and i'm here in Dubai. Well, so many things happened in 2011. it has been a remarkable year for me and Syafeeq yet for my family.

Just a few updates. Me and syafeeq is happily married (sila cakap congratulation) on November,11th 2011. I've done my umrah a week after our reception (Alhamdulillah) and I'm pregnant (oke, ni tipu. haha). Pregnant is such a big thing. If anyone ask, frankly i'm not ready yet to become a mother but i leave it all to Allah cuz He knows better. At the same time, i'm still under my company's bond. which i think i left about 10 months to go and  i'm free. Yahooo!!! OOpps, Alhamdulillah! ;)

Most of my colleagues don't believe that i'm married. "u're too young darling!'' That's the common expression that i received. Yes i'm young but turning our relationship into Halal is a super great decision. We've been together since we were 16 and we were 25 when we get married. Of course, there were upside-down in our relationship and we managed to get through it and it makes our relationship stronger. I love him very much! And, bila dah kahwin ni, lagi best. Sebab even dengan menatap (chewah) ur husband with love, dah dapat pahala (and i did it without fail everytime i see him). And, lagi best cuz when we go out together, i dun have to worry to inform my mom. hehe.

Well, I'm newcomer so,i still have a looooooooooooooooooooooots of thing to learn. But as long as we know the concept of marriage in Islam and what are our responsibilities, i believe our marriage will last forever (doakan k!). There are few couple out there, yang kadang2 bila dia selalu keluarkan duit, years later, mula nak mengungkit. If he's or she's ur girlfriend or boyfriend, takpelah kot nak mengungkit. But, u're married! Mak saya pernah berpesan, bila dah kahwin, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, share dengan our soulmate walau sesikit mana, and sebanyak mana rezeki yang Allah bagi tu. And if u think ur husband/wife has a lots of flaw, please keep it between you and him. If i'm not mistaken, dosa if we spread the words. Tok kadi saya cakap, "walau seburuk mana pasangan anda, terima dia dengan seadanya. Kalau dia suka tidur, kita kena terima. Kalau dia tidur berdengkur pon, terima jugak. Bila kita bersabar, pasti ada balasan dari Allah" .

Marriage is a beautiful thing. Kalau kita cakap, bayi yang lahir tu ibarat kain putih, ibu bapa yang akan mencorakkannya, i think i'm not wrong to say that marriage is as well like a clean canvas. It's up to you and ur soulmate how to paint it. Doesn't matter what comes in ur way, as long as u know how to handle it, I'm sure u'll be fine. Whatever mistakes that u've done, always muhasabah diri sendiri before u start to blame other. Remember, people around u may give their own opinion based on the surface, but u know things well. So, take everything into account before u make ur decision. They give comment, but u r the one who make the decision.

I'll blog about my wedding and our honeymoon soon. Meantime, pls enjoy some of our wedding picture. :D

on our solemnization night

 our reception 

my family 

p/s: sayang, i dun have ur family's picture

I guess that's all! It's 1135 in dubai now and my check out time is 1610. I wanna have my power nap before flight or else, i may become a singa stewardess. hahaha! 

Almost 14

It's almost 14 years and it has been 13 years since last time i wish "Happy Father's Day" to someone whom i called ayah. The thought of you will never fade as I love you very much. May ur soul be blessed by Allah always. Al-fatihah~

Malas

Just came back from sydney. Winter?yes! But not a heavy one. The winter just started. I'm starvin now but malas to cook or order mcd (muak dah!). My room is full with unfold clothes. This one i memang malas! Hahaha.rasa2 if one day ada machine lipat baju,i'll be the 1st one to buy. Hihi. Teringat time matrik dulu2.I've a friend who actually kind enough to fold my mountain of garments. I was just kidding by that time;

Friend: eh,kau taknak lipat ke baju ni?
Me: nantilah. Kalau kau rajin,lipatlah. Hahahaha!

I went to the toilet right after. When i came back to my room, tadaaaaaa!!!!!

Me: eh,what happen to my clothes?
Friend: aku lipatlah.
Me:???????

Tired but it was an awesome set of crew i flew with. We've got a honeymoon couple on board. We served honeymoon cake and special drink for them. So,if u guys happen to fly with singapore airlines on ur special occasion; luke honeymoon, birthday, anniversary etc, just stated in ur booking,special event. We are more than please to serve u. Weeeee!

Weddingcinematography/videography

I and syafeeq went to Pameran Kerja Kahwin which was hel in Kompleks Kraf KL. It was uplanned. Suddenly feels like going cuz i wanted to get an idea on doorgift. But, lain pulak yang dapat.haha. We took a cinematography package from .It's quite reasonable unfortunately, their schedule is full for our solemnization. Sob2... That's the most important part! As what syafeeq said,when we quarrel or merajuk with each other, we can watch the video and reminisce of the moments. Haha! We only manage to hire them for our reception. So friends, i need your help!! Just in case, you happrn to know any videograper or cinematographer with reasonable price, do let me know k! :)
Or maybe u, urself is the one, and u r available on the 11th nov 2011, please contact me through my email (indahayatie@gmail.com) ok! Hee...

Oh my laptop

Today nak sigh about my laptop. Huhu. My own laptop has been attacked by virus+worms+every sort of things that lead to crashing my lappy. I havr soooooooo many things inside there! My wedding invitation card design as well. Grrrrrrrrr!

Then, i borrowed my brother's laptop. It has no photoshop so, i installed it last night. Suddenly, arghhhhhhh! The window just froze! Grrrrrrrrr again! Rasa2 nak beli laptop barulah.hihi.agak2 kalau saya tanya kat syafeeq,dia bagi tak? :p

Okelah,itu je nak update.tak seronok update pakai phone. Nak upload picture pon tak boleh. Cis!

aLone

Lonely! Yes, that what i felt. Haish... sampai bila tak boleh nak get used to singapore ni?huhu. Anyway, i applied for my master! Daripada I tak buat anything dekat Singapore ni, might as well doing something which can upgrade my self. Hehe. (doakan saya dapat eh. TQ! ^^) I wanted to do freelance for landscape unfortunately, my ex boss don't want freelance. Aiyak, soooooooooo bored when nobody's around, especially when all my friends are flying. T__T

In 5 months and 2 weeks, i'll be somebody's wife. Happy but at the same time nervous. Haha! We planned to have kids after 2/3 years but if Allah grant us earlier, Alhamdulillah. :D (muka excited masa type ni). Haha. Hopefully, nothing will come in between until our wedding day. Amin....

Married then got kids ramai - ramai macam ni. hikhik.

p/s: this pic is from uncle G. :)

P/S : It's a great singapore sale now! Jomlah datang singapura! hihi.

When something just not as b4...

Sometimes i felt like something doesn't go as i hope it should be. What's went wrong? I dunno! But one thing for sure,i miss my friends back in KL. Singapore is....... I might say liveless! Friends just come and go. People see, stewrdess is such happening job. Yes it is but,u'll realize,in the end, u got no friends because you keep working with diff ppl hence,it is very difficult to get close with somebody. Hurm...

Oke,enuff of touching!back to reality indah! :p

I'll be leaving for sydney tonight! :)

Mamma Mia!

Currently reporting from London! A very nice city. I can't help it to say that I love London! I got to visit London every month since March. Some people don't like London but for me, I don't mind about it cuz, London has Primark, which selling the most affordable and nice clothing, shoes and handbags. :D . And as I'm a Muslim, not mustslim, so it'll be easier for me cuz i can eat at Malaysian Hall. My friend said to me "eh, dah macam balik kampung you ni".:P

I watched Mamma Mia yesterday. Not bad! I was thinking of watching Phantom of the Opera or Mamma Mia. At last, we chose Mamma Mia and i guess i had a great deal! I don't want to waste my time to tell the plot. So, you can read it here. Next month I'm going to watch Phantom of the Opera, or should i watch Wicked? or The Lion King? Waaaaaaaaaaaaaargh, alot of plays here and I don't know which one is better! ><

As i go around the globe, i always wish that someone will be here, together with me because.................................  tak syok jalan sorang2! wuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu~

Hujan Rahmat

As Malay saying goes "hujan itu pembawa rahmat". Hmmm...to be as posituve as i could,yes,i admit that. Even when something bad happeb during the rainy day, i know that there must be a blessing in disguise. Allah will never give something without any reason.ok, What's up Indah??!!!

Hehehe...last wednesday, it was raining cat and dog. I look at my hanphone, it's 4.15am. I rush to toilet and do whatever necessary then quickly run to car and drove off.i need to fetch my beloved fiancee from since i borrowed his car. I drive as per normal but suddenly, the car stopped!!! Oh my Allah!!!! I stepped out and....jeng jeng jeng...huhu... Macam tak sanggup nak sambung cerita. Huhu. But the last thing i could tell, the car's engine is full with water. Wuuuuuu... My fiancee keep blaming me. I know it's my fault but, i never meant to. It's not like i take a water jar, then fill up the engine with water. It was accident. :'(

Now the car has been admitted to workshop. Huhu. I am sorry sayang....tapi,silalah percaya hujan itu pembawa rahmat. You can't see or feel it now but, who knows...

Young,truth & honesty

Honesty and truth vs hipocracy...huhu. Sometimes it's good to speAk up and tell the truth but sometimes,something os better to remain silent. I don't want to be a hipocrite but i just can't avoid it. I like to speak up whatever i feel and it's sometimes hurts others. But i just throw my point of view. It's isn't wrong right? I couldn't just stand there and watch everything without doing anything; more over if it involve people that I love.

Who made the rules that young people can't commented people whom are elder than him/her??? If we know that the elder is doing something wrong, or going astray, we may tap on their shoulder and says that "eh, i think what you did is not correct". What should the elder respons? Scold the young or sit and think whether what she/he commented about is correct or not. I just don't understand people who can't take younger people's advice or comment.

ish, what am i babling about??!!!! Ini semua gara-gara jetlagged of london. T.T
Erm,okelah. I'm going to try to sleep for .....can't remember how many times already.hahaha.bengong dah lah! Bye!

Assamualaikum kawan-kawan.

Forgiveness

What do you think about forgiveness? We should asked for it or shall we give it? The answer is; the best thing to do is, we give the forgiveness to whomever without waiting for that particular person to asked it from u. With me? Why? hurm, as for me, i think because it's easily lessen our burden to think and think and wait "when he/she is going to asked me to forgive him/her"? kan?? But, i never said that we don't have to ask for it. Haish, kalau dah buat salah, pandai - pandailah mintak maaf kan? ^^

Just imagine, if people easily forgive others, Iraq won't be attack by US and, WTC will still be there. People always said, "I am not a Prophet Muhammad S.A.W, i am not easily forgive," or even worse, "tiada maaf bagimu"...wah2..ayat drama! haha. I was, sometimes said that but after a while and thinking of it, it's no use to keep the grudge. Life is very, very short. So, why should we waste it with hatred and grudge. And now, with all the natural disaster, it's a sign from Allah that the world has come to an end. If 2012 really happens, we left like...erm, one and half year? that's too short kan? (oke, i am scared to think about it. But, no one can predict the judgement day kan? huhu. So, boleh abaikan. Sila banyakkan beramal kepada yang satu kat atas tu ye). So, just spread the love, forgive others and be positive.

I found this when i google through. We can take the good ones;

To experience the life-giving nature of forgiveness, try putting into practice these six steps each time you are hurt by another person.

1. Admit that you have needed forgiveness in the past. We all make mistakes. We’ve all hurt other people in the past. One of the key steps in being able to practice the power of forgiveness is to realize that you have needed forgiveness at some point in your life too. When we are able to humbly admit that we have needed forgiveness from another, we are in a better position to offer forgiveness to someone who has hurt us. 
2. Understand what forgiveness is not. You were wronged. Don’t minimize the offense by pretending it didn’t happen. Granted, if you were hurt accidentally, you only need to show patience. But if you were hurt intentionally, you’ll need to accept that fact and show forgiveness.
3. Realize the difference between forgiveness and trust. One of the most misunderstood aspects of forgiveness is when it is confused with trust. Depending on the nature of the offense, your ability to trust has been deeply compromised. Forgiving somebody does not mean that you need to restore that relationship without changes. Remember that forgiveness can be instant, but trust must be built over a period of time. Realize the difference. While offering forgiveness brings freedom, being wise about trust can protect your heart in the future.
4. Give up your right to get even. Too many people live life keeping score. They keep a mental list of people who have wronged them in the past and live their life looking for opportunities to get even. Forgiveness provides the opportunity to erase the list and to release your heart from the burden of revenge.
5. Choose to respond with kindness. Anyone can respond to evil with evil. But only the strong can respond with good. Kindness breaks the cycle. It can bring freedom to your soul and release your life from the never-ending, downward cycle of responding to evil with evil.
6. Repeat the process as needed. As long as you live your life in relationship with others, you are going to be wronged. Accept the fact that nobody is perfect and be prepared to repeat the process above as needed.

If you are harboring resentment towards another human being because of past hurts, choose to forgive and move on. The harm was their fault. But allowing it to weigh down your life today is yours. Free yourself today by taking the steps to experience the benefits of forgiveness in your life.

p/s: this is not from me. copy from google tau. hehehe. sharing is sexy kan? :p

Oh, I am so lazy to fly now. I am easily get bored. hahhaa. Nak jadi student semula lah. :) . I am still deciding whether to further MBA or Master of Urban Planning. But, my intuition is more to MBA.Eh, i think before i start to write ridiculous things, i better off now. Moreover, I am sleepy but i just ate cheese cake. Adakah ini akan menyebabkan lemak membesar if i go the bed now? huhu. My uniform is going to burst soon! it's soooooooooooooooooooooooo freaking tight now!!!! Every night before i sleep, i intent to go jogging the next morning but then end up, hangat - hangat tahi ayam! hahaha. After subuh prayer, i'll sleep again all the way until my stomach starts to growling. hehehe. Oke, good night friends!

p/s: the italic phrase is in Malay Language. If you don't understand, please use google translate to translate it. Just click the link. ^_-

Currently

Currently, i enjoyed traveling around and love serving people on board (oke, this one sometimes isn't true at all!). Haha. I will easily gets annoyed when...............................................passenger poke me while i'm still serving, unstoppable orders for the whole good 12 hours on board from the same passenger and when people used the lavatory then leave their sh*t behind! uwarrrrrrghhh! That is the scariest!I think they should put the "flush here" sign bigger. Yelah, bukan semua orang selalu naik kapal terbang kan? But then, i realized that different ppl has different intention and perspectives. Maybe, they just a "stewardess' attention seeker".  What i meant, they looooooooooooooove to look at stewardess, which i think same as me before i became a stewardess. hikhik. So, layankan ajelah kan? Be a good stewardess. Hehe. Here's some photo while i  was in Amsterdam. I love the landscape here! It's really pedestrian and environmental friendly. Everybody seems comfortable riding a bicycle. Sooooooooooo cute. Hehe. I wish that Malaysian could do this as well but too bad, the weather in Malaysia didn't allowed us to do so but, why they can do it in Singapore? Hurm... So, apalagi, bagilah cadangan kat Kerajaan Malaysia how to make it possible. The town planning must be superb i guess.

 A lotsa bicycle parked by the roadside. Substitute it with motorcycle in KL.

 Opps, nightlife in Amstedam is sooo alive in their RED LIGHT DISTRICT. :p

 at Flowe Market with messy hair style (padahal rambut bersepah. haha)

 See, lotsa bicycle kan?

 Farid-me-Vera

I wish i could bring back Amsterdam for you but, sorry! I can't afford it. The city setting is almost the same over the steps that u take.

Oke, enuff! back to me. hehe. I ym-ed with my ex colleagues yesterday. She told me about my replacement has resigned unprofessionally. But that is not the thing that i want to scribble here. I was sooooooooooooo glad when my ex-colleague told me that my client gave me compliment. hehe. owh, i love u Mr Lee. Ooops...haha. I do love work with him. I must admit that sometimes i miss my previous career. T.T . p/s: my laptop has been attacked by virus(es). It can't detect any USB. So, i can't paste my artwork here. Next time lah eh?

Currently, me and my beloved fiance is busy with our wedding preparation. U want the date? Hehe. It'll be on 20th November 2011 and the solemnization will be on 11th November 2011. Our anniversary is on 22nd November. If u realize, all has connection to 11. :P. Nothing is special pon about 11. It's just a number. Tapi apa motif I nak kaitkan 11 tu? :p . We have settled quite number of things but i'm worried that we might missed something that is important. Can any of you help me pls? Oke, here's the things that we've done:

• Wedding Dress & Suit
• Venue
• Catering
• Pelamin
• Make Up
• Dowry
• doorgift
• Photographer. *we are still thinking of the theme of our pre-wedding photoshoot. Any suggestion?*

Anything that we missed???

Oh ya, i have moved to a new house. I really like the house!! Super nice! Hehehe.

Who is agree with me that this house is nice??hehehe

Bercinta Sampai Syurga (love till heaven)

Hmm...nice topic i think (tak malu angkat bakul, masuk sendiri. eh, kinda weird. HAHA). Actually, it's a title of a book which currently being read by me. It's not a romance novel ya! Don't judge a book by it's title tau. hehe. This book is a motivational book. I bought it like a month ago with my mom. I was accidentally stop in front of a book stall then i look at the title, kinda interesting. I would really love to have my love till heaven (insyaAllah) so, maybe by motivated myself by reading this book may lead my way there. *motivate sangatlah tu. Baca pon xabes2. haha*

What does it content? It content a lot of reality. I love the way the author discussing the topic. It stimulated my brain to think the other way rather than to think the conventional way. I haven't finish reading it, but there is one topic that attracts me...which is Kamu Sentiasa Layak Diuji ( You are always eligible to be tested). The author was right. Whenever Allah tested us, we always goes like "why me, why not others?" but don't we realize that we belongs to Allah. We are servant. A status that makes us eligible to be tested.

Everything happen for a reasons. An end is always a beginning. Just remember, when Allah test us, it means, He loves us, and He's talking to us. Remind us that we have gone away from the correct path.

"Kita sentiasa layak diuji...

kerana kita adalah HAMBA"

I'm Engaged!

I have change my status since 25th December 2010. What a great finish of 2010 i believe. ^^

Since i've become somebody's fiance ni (actually i dun really feel a great change in our status.hihi), a lot i've to slowly change. Trying to be more respect to my fiance in preparation of our next status change which insyaAllah will be on 11 day before our 9th anniversary. Nak tahu bile? cari sendiri la my anniversary date. :p

Wanna see my engagement's picture(s)? Xnak? Xnak xpe, i still nak shows off jugak! wekk!

my beloved mom! :*

my mother in law..eh, belum lagi la.hihi

my family
his family
stars~
owh, best friend saya punya pic xde dalam laptop. harap bestfriend2 saya faham ye. huhu.

frens of him

the girlfriends
lastly, me and him
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and the rings~hehe

People always said that being engaged is the toughest one. Why? Erm, my personal point of view, it's not exactly being engaged that made it so. It is because.....

1. Preparation of the wedding

There are a lot of things to be thinking of prior to the big day. eg; catering, reception date, honeymoon (oops.haha), the solemnization ceremony etc. As for me and my fiance, we had a little quarrel on the theme color and venue. Since we'll be joining our reception in which, only one reception (normally, in malay wedding, 2 reception will be hold), so, we need to choose the color that both of us could agree on. The venue, we had list down few of it but then, end up only one place that available. huhuhu. *nanges*. Almost like everytime we talked about it, the conversation will goes to arguments. haish..Sampai rase malas nak kahwin sebab asyik gaduh over this thing. haha. But, we solve it,because we could tolerate with each other opinions (yeke sayang? :P). As conclusion for this; we have to tolerate with our other half. Barulah bahagia. ^^

2. The mind set

Some couple have set in their mind that "engage = trouble = brittle relationship". The relationship's fundamental has been set to negative thing. When we think of something negatives, results we'll be negative. Kan? Cuba fikir the positive things. "engage = more loving = more durable relationship". Isn't it sounds better? So, throw that negative thought! 

Erm, those two reasons je that I could think right now. :p. If you all have ur own opinion, please share it ya! :)

Okelah, i think i should stop now. hihi.

Thanks for reading. :)

Daaaaaa~~~

Welcome 2011!

It is day 18 in 2011. Not to late to wish a very happy new year kan?hhehe. I was in bed during new years eve, hibernate myself for my Auckland flight on next day very morning. :) . Oh, I am already an operating crew now! hehe.

Wah...it's been like 4 months i didn't update my blog! I admit that i've been busy for past few months. Training, flight, study and more! Yea, yea, I know that you are eager to know what are the new environment that i went through rite now aite *cough*. What to update eh? Oh ya, bout the new life and new job of course. ngee~
SINGAPORE. Here I am. Yea, SG is quite a good place to stay. They have good public transportation system (but of course not perfect), lots of food and lots of shopping mall but, few sightseeing places to go since their size is too small but i bet a lot of activity can be done here. :D. Come, visit Singapore now! (promote negara orang la plak. haha). Erm, one more, sometimes when go to buy from a stall, they will speak chinese with you. Dun be perasan that u have that chinese look but, it was them, who can't speak english because they are from Mainland China. :)So far, I've been to few parts of SG such as Sentosa Island, erm, airport, errr.....woodlands, orchard,bugis, arab street...errr....that's all. Seems like i haven't enjoy the island yet! haha. I always go back to Malaysia. Hehehe. Oke, enuff of SG.*TITIK*
TRAINING. oh yea! Sooooooooo penat oke the training. Quite tough but sometimes it was fun. :) . We pledge n sing the company song every morning. eh, it is for real ? yea, u read it right! EVERY MORNING! huargh...sometimes the song will linger on my mind when i do my shopping, on the bus or even during bath. Pathetic? No, I love my company. Mwah! And i was officially finish my training on 29th Dec 2010. The last batch that graduate in year 2010. :D

All the best to all my batchmates. Together we SOAR!
FLYING. I enjoyed every minute of it! There are thousands of reason why people chose to fly even though they have first class degree or even they studied overseas before. This job has a huge magnetic power! I must admit that flight attendant is the most amazing job! Just imagine, u will be like, holiday throughout the year and most importantly, it's free and paid for! :D

But, people always throw negative impression towards air stewardess (loves by boyfriend but not his mum.haha). Well, from my point of view, it really depends on a person. We were given brain to think, heart to felt and combination of both to make decision. So, if we know how to differentiate between good and bad, we might not go astray. Who agree with me? Eye brow up please. hehe.

Anyway, i think it's enuff for now kot. I have flight tomorrow to Denpasar ( Bali ) but sadly, it's not a nightstop. Just turn around. T.T
Enjoy these few picture of mine while I was in Auckland (it was my first solo!).

the whole set of crew having lunch at the hotel

With the senior crew . :)
Me, Natalia and Adam


With a nice couple in Waiheke Island. They brought us around Waiheke. Thank you very much!

Sunset in Waiheke Island